Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Times With Grandpa G


Hello my friends,


I would like to invite you to share an experience you have had with Grandpa Glassford. Post your experience on your BLOG for all to enjoy. We look forward to reading “Times with Grandpa G”.

I will start by introducing myself. I am Richard H. Glassford II: Son of Grandpa G. I am the second son of Richard and Luanne Glassford.


This true story took place in Southern California when I was around 13 years old.Living on this planet provides one with a multitude of unique experiences. My life has been anything but dull. I think I can attribute that to my OCD and a supportive family. I have many more things on my bucket list and hope to share those with loved ones for many years to come.

My experience occurred when I was about 13 years old. I was in 8th grade and all I could think about was basketball, fishing and my pigeons. One Friday while sitting in school my buddies and I were thinking about fishing. We could never focus on Fridays because we knew we were about to wet a line somewhere in San Diego County. Grandpa G was the leader of our fishing party. Dad always made himself available to take us places and help the youth in our Ward. I had many good friends at this time and if I recall correctly Daryl Dickey, Mark Arnold and Steve Quesenberry accompanied us on this outing.

This particular Friday night we ventured to a lake about 80 minutes east of the city. Late that afternoon we took off to go camping and fishing. This lake is out in the country and stars lit up the night sky. With no light pollution from the ever present city sprawl, the night seemed extra dark and only venerable to a strong flashlight. To young teenagers the darkness invited the imagination to run wild and things that go bump in the night become a reality in the darkened distance beyond our vision. The plant life is mainly scrub-like with California live oaks scattered around the lake. Our camp site had some large trees providing much needed shade from the intense summer heat. Lake Moreno has an extensive variety of fish and we always had great success (bass, blue gill, sunfish, and catfish). This particular trip proved to be one of the most lasting impressions in my mind. When we pulled into the camp, the sun was almost down and it quickly became dark. We set up camp in the darkness with the lights of the car providing assistance. You must know as I continue to type what I am about to share with you actually happened. I am not making it up ………. The ground was littered with oak leaves and egg corns and I remember the smell and feel of the ground beneath us. We opened some canned foods and quickly ate as much as was provided before lying on our sleeping bags. All four of us young deacons were arranged like sardines side by side looking to the sky for shooting stars. Off in the distance about 100 ft was a large Oak tree and Grandpa G pointed out some curious lights that were moving above the tree. Our eyes quickly moved from star gazing to a 45 degree angle above and behind the tree.

We were instantly mesmerized by lights that seem to float above and behind the tree. From our perspective the lights could have been light years away or could have been just feet above and behind the tree. The objects could have been one inch across or as big as a football field. As the lights interacted with one another we noticed the lights moved quickly, slowed then followed by quick random movements. Our close encounter lasted a few minutes and to this day I believe we experienced something from another world. Dad and I have talked about this many times since and we cannot come up with another other explanation. After a short period of time we stood and walked towards the car to see the lights from a different angle. Shortly after the lights dissipated and the experience was over. I know some of you have might have some explanations but as far I am concerned Grandpa G and four adolescent boys saw something from another world. As for the rest of the night we laid on our sleeping bags with some anxiety and creative explanations. I am sure we also talked about girls but mostly about the aliens that were headed in our direction and what we were going to do when they tried to suck out our brains. Grandpa of course eased our minds and helped us focus on the fishing we were going to do the next morning. We had a great time catching plenty of fish and on the way home as usual Grandpa stopped in a small town called Alpine to get us some soft ice cream cones. If you know grandpa, you know he loves getting the kids ice cream. Thanks Gramps for all the great memories and we look forward to many more.


Love your Son,

Rich or Ricky

P.S. I would like to get in touch with those aliens and perhaps set up a photo shoot.


* Important information
: fireflies are not found in Southern California. In South Carolina I experienced these unique insects and the lights we observed were significantly brighter and larger than fireflies. When we stepped to the side to view the lights they appeared farther away then directly above the tree.

8 comments:

  1. I have some better stories to put up... there's so many to choose from! First of all I'd like to say how grateful I am to have been able to grow up with my grandparents so close. It was such a blessing.

    One of my favorite memories of grandpa when I was young was- as daddy pointed out in his story-- the ice cream cones! :) Grandpa would take me to Macies and CHALLENGE me to eat a whole KONG CONE (and those things were seriously huge!) He'd always trick me into it, and the only stipulation was if he was going to buy it for me I'd have to eat the whole thing....
    oh the brain freezes :)
    Another highlight was my puppy Jazz (named after the Utah Jazz). Her life was short, but it was really such a good bonding opportunity for Grandpa G and I. We had so much fun training that wonderful puppy.

    Thanks for all the good times Grandpa! You're such a sweetheart!

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  2. I loved going to Macey's and getting king kongs with Grandpa G.

    I also LOVE LOVE LOVE all the times when he would come and visit and bring us watermelon taffy from California.

    He was such a tease. He always treated me like I was his granddaughter too - I love you Grandpa G!! (I know you said to put this in my blog- but Angie didn't so I copied and I wanted to make sure Grandpa G knows how much I love him!!!!)

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    Karin

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  3. Wow, I thnk I would have need to leave the campsite after seeing those alien lights. Good story Rich, as for me there are many so I am going to have to giveit some thought....I will have it posted by christmas.

    Love you all and happy thanksgiving!
    Jamie

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  4. I have so many stories and memories i've shared with grandpa. He is not only an amazing man but a great father and husband. My story comes from when I was little and grandma and grandpa were still living in san diego.

    Between the ages of 2 and 5, grandpa and I would always have a tradition when he picked me up from school. This tradition consisted of ice cream, fig newton bars, and the occasional pitching in the backyard. Nearly everyday grandpa would pick me up from preschool and ALL the kids were jealous because they always wished that their grandpas would pick them up. And on the way home grandpa would take me to dairy queen for my favorite dipped butterscotch cone! then we would stop by green tree grocerys and pick up my favorite healthy snack...fig newtons (i know, now they are gross to me =)). But in any case, I was suprised that these little moments in time would stick so deeply in my mind. I think it was because grandpa would make sure that everyday was a celebration!

    Another quick memory, was when he took me and corey to "the rock" to go fishing. Grandpa always got a hoot out of that one! he found it hilarious that we couldn't climb up a 6 ft rock. but at the time we were only like 3 ft tall! haha..of course grandpa was kidding.

    Anyways, I would like to say how much I love both grandma and grandpa! Grandpa has always been like a father to me and I couldn't be more blessed to have such loving grandparents!

    Love, Amy

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  5. Just so you know - I am Karin and Jake's Karen is Karen. Ha ha. I just like being difficult. Are you guys getting ready for Christmas??? Does Rich have Santa's beard?

    love ya!

    Karin

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  6. My memory also comes from the more distant days of Gma and Gpaw living in San Diego...

    During the summers, school was out and Crystal and I had nothing to do except hang out at Grandma and Grandpa's house. We played outside mostly because we were in Grandma's way inside. Grandpa must have been in her way, too, because he was outside enjoying the sun with us.
    We would often ride our bikes in the backyard while Grandpa watched us. Most of you know, Grandpa always had a soda in his hand, like Tab then Diet Coke, which was also true when in the backyard. One day we came up with a game to involve Grandpa in our bike riding activities. We called it "Gas Station." In this pretend play, we would drive our bikes up to Grandpa (in his chair) as if we were driving up our cars. We would say, "Fill 'er up," and he would give us a cup with a sip of Tab in it. We would be so excited, we would ride our bike in a quick circle around the yard and back to Grandpa for another "fill up." It was hours of fun. So much fun, we made Grandpa play for months!

    Thanks for the great memories~ Love Jen

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  7. So I am pretty sure I have known Grandpa the least amount of time, however, it didn't take me long to realize how wise and perceptive Grandpa is. Shortly after Jen and I got engaged, while Grandpa and I were talking one day, he started talking about the economy and world politics. During the discussion he forecasted the US headed for a deep recession/depression in the coming months. While at the time I chalked it up to the normal concerns of someone who had lived through the Great Depression, now I know better. Seeing the state of current world events, I am more prone to listen when Grandpa speaks and pay attention to his advice. ~ Cris

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  8. He isn't my Grandpa, nor my Dad, but he spent a lot of quality time with me growing up. Though I wasn't very good at Basketball, I was as good as I was because of him.

    I remember so many times going to the church to play basketball with him, and he would make us peanut butter and mayonaise sandwiches. When I tell people about him, this is what stands out the most for me.

    My Dad passed away when I was six, and there were a couple of my friends parents that stand out who gave me the attention I needed so much, and your Dad/Grandpa was numero uno.

    To Rich and Jaime, thank you for sharing your Father with me. Love, Daisy (Dial)

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